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Your Guide to Safer Sex

Your Health, Your Choice: Know Your Options

Take steps to protect yourself and your partner

Communication
Communication: Talking to Partners

Get Vaccinated
Get Vaccinated: HPV, Hepatitis A&B, MPox
PrEP
HIV PrEP/PEP: Rhode Island's PrEP Champions

Condoms
Reduce Your Risk: Get Free Condoms
Talk. Test. Treat.
DoxyPEP: A New Way to Prevent STIs

Testing
How It Works: Get Yourself Tested

Knowledge is Power!

Understanding how to protect yourself from HIV and STIs is the first step you can take to keep yourself safe and prevent the spread to others. Let’s explore different preventative options.

Practice Safer Sex

Use Condoms

Rhode Island cares about your well-being. The Condoms By Mail Program offers discreet, and convenient delivery right to your mailbox. 

Have a Conversation

We understand that discussing sensitive topics with your partner may feel difficult, but having open and honest communication is important for the health of your relationship.

Reduce the Number of Sexual Partners

Reducing the number of sexual partners can decrease the risks for HIV, STIs, and mpox.

Avoid the use of Alcohol and Drugs

Drinking alcohol or using drugs during sexual activity can increase your chances of risky sexual behavior.

Get Tested Regularly

Make testing part of your routine. Find a primary care physician or clinic near you. You can even check out the Rhode Island Department of Health's TESTING 1-2-3 Program, where you can get tested for HIV, Hepatitis C, and STIs without having to leave your home. It's a simple way to prioritize your health.  

You can also get a free, confidential rapid HIV test from several community organizations statewide who administer these tests or you can order a free at-home HIV test kit from AIDS Project RI. The Together Take Me Home Program also offers free rapid HIV tests that can be sent to anyone 17 or older in the United States, including Puerto Rico.

You can find a list of clinics that offer HIV and STI testing. A primary care provider can also order these tests.

Go to the Miriam Hospital STI Clinic, which has regular walk-in hours.

HIV and STI prevention starts with you
HIV and STI prevention starts with you

Your Guide to HIV and STI Testing: What to Expect?

1. Getting Tested:

HIV testing at a lab is done through a blood sample. A rapid HIV test can be done anywhere with an oral swab. Some STI tests are blood tests and others test your urine (pee). Reach out to your primary care physician or clinic to schedule an appointment, or consider the convenience of the TESTING 1-2-3 Program, which allows you to schedule an HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, or Hepatitis C test without a trip to the doctor’s office.

Need more help finding a healthcare provider? Search here for clinics or primary care providers in RI. There is also a list of LGBTQ+-friendly doctors and health information that you can find on this page.

2. Results:

Lab results usually take a few days for analysis. If you choose to have a rapid HIV test, you can often get the results in about 30 minutes. If your test is positive, the Rhode Island Department of Health has resources available to guide your next steps, help you navigate living with HIV and getting treatment for HIV and STIs, and provide advice on notifying your partner.

It’s important for anyone who has tested positive to let their sexual partner(s) know so that it can be treated and not spread to others. Some people feel comfortable telling their partner(s) themselves. But sometimes, telling sexual partner(s) can be uncomfortable and awkward.

The good news is that there are two ways to notify your partner(s) without sharing any of your personal information.

OPTION 1: Do it yourself and use the RIghtTime app or tellyourpartner.org.
RIDOH’s RIghtTime app offers Rhode Islanders information on sexual health topics, like HIV/STI prevention/testing, healthy relationships/domestic violence resources, and family planning and birth control information. The app’s partner notification tool is powered by tellyourpartner.org, which you can use to send an anonymous notification to your partner.

OPTION 2: Work with health educators or your doctor and have them do it.

RIDOH health educators are here to help you. They are friendly staff who are well trained in reaching out to people and letting them know they may have been exposed to an STI and that they should get an STI check-up. This helps your sex partner(s) get treatment and stay healthy. It also helps prevent you from getting an STI again. The health educators NEVER tell anyone who you are or any information that you choose to share. You can call a health educator at 401-222-2577 and ask for partner services.

Prevention and Treatment Options

While there isn't a cure for HIV, there are treatments that enable those affected to enjoy a healthy and happy lifestyle.

If you have HIV, you can prevent passing it to others. Your partner can discuss Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) with their doctor. PrEP is an option to prevent HIV for those not living with it but are at risk of getting an infection. If you think you've been exposed to HIV, talk to your doctor about Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (PEP) to prevent infection.

There are many treatments for STIs and STDs. Most STDs can be cured with antibiotics. While others may not be curable, they can still be treated. If you are diagnosed, encourage your partner to get checked to prevent reinfection and avoid having sex again until you and your partner(s) have finished treatment.

Vaccines play a crucial role in preventing both diseases and infections.  One important prevention tool against sexually transmitted infections is vaccination. Vaccines protect against infection with Human Papillomavirus (HPV), hepatitis A, and hepatitis B. It is also very important for sexually active people who may be at risk of mpox infection to take precautions and get vaccinated against mpox.

Talk to your doctor/healthcare professional or pharmacist if you have any questions about vaccination and options for getting vaccinated.

Your Health Your Choice: Know Your Options